.However what Astrid doesn't understand yet is actually a fact that both Ortega and also O'Hara-- who has 2 children-- can confirm: The reality that your partnership with your moms and dads changes and advances as you both get older, as well as with any luck right. "Your globe centers around [your children] when they're little ones [as well as] it's a lot work yet attractive," O'Hara mentions. "Eventually, you definitely miss that, given that after that you can't obtain all of them to perform everything you desire all of them to perform, since they begin cultivating their own minds, their own opinions." As well as inevitably, you end up in the place O'Hara, whose boys are in their 20s and 30s, discovers herself today, able to gain from her children. "They are actually just such great younger fellas," she claims. "I'm certainly not their buddy, however I like having discussions along with them and learning more about how they think about lifestyle.".